Comments on: How to get over an ex! http://pintmaster.com/20060724/how-to-get-over-an-ex/ Mon, 01 Dec 2008 20:28:37 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: amy http://pintmaster.com/20060724/how-to-get-over-an-ex/#comment-126195 amy Tue, 30 Sep 2008 17:32:10 +0000 http://www.pintmaster.com/wordpress/index.php/20060724/how-to-get-over-an-ex/#comment-126195 I was with my ex for 3 years and last Christmas he gave me a ring. A few months later he dumped me and said he "didn't want to be with anybody." I moved out and found another boyfriend who I do love, but I miss my ex terribly. I have been missing him. I went to his house yesterday and there was another girl in his bed with him and she was curled up in my blanket. I lost my mind and just wanted to break anything I could. I am very hurt. Can someone help me? I am stuck bouncing around in the anger/depression and bargaining. And I dont even know that I want to be with him anymore, but I love him so much and it hurts so badly to know he is with someone else. He lied, you know? It hurts so much worse now. I was with my ex for 3 years and last Christmas he gave me a ring. A few months later he dumped me and said he “didn’t want to be with anybody.” I moved out and found another boyfriend who I do love, but I miss my ex terribly. I have been missing him. I went to his house yesterday and there was another girl in his bed with him and she was curled up in my blanket. I lost my mind and just wanted to break anything I could.

I am very hurt. Can someone help me? I am stuck bouncing around in the anger/depression and bargaining. And I dont even know that I want to be with him anymore, but I love him so much and it hurts so badly to know he is with someone else. He lied, you know? It hurts so much worse now.

]]> By: Jeff http://pintmaster.com/20060724/how-to-get-over-an-ex/#comment-116641 Jeff Tue, 29 Jul 2008 18:39:01 +0000 http://www.pintmaster.com/wordpress/index.php/20060724/how-to-get-over-an-ex/#comment-116641 Also, I have to say "WOW" I thought I was the only one who cant seem to get over someone even after 3 years, but after I read this whole page, I see there are those that have been broken up even longer and moved on with another and still cant seem to get over the "one". Also, I have to say “WOW” I thought I was the only one who cant seem to get over someone even after 3 years, but after I read this whole page, I see there are those that have been broken up even longer and moved on with another and still cant seem to get over the “one”.

]]> By: Jeff http://pintmaster.com/20060724/how-to-get-over-an-ex/#comment-116600 Jeff Tue, 29 Jul 2008 16:25:12 +0000 http://www.pintmaster.com/wordpress/index.php/20060724/how-to-get-over-an-ex/#comment-116600 I was in relationship with gril in another country,I am in US. We were together for 5 years.SHe had to travel back and forth from her country to see me. I never married her but should have. We had a rocky time together but still loved ech other. I have not seen in 3 years exactly. 2 years go we had a fight online and she ended it. I went thru all the anger,denial,etc.. I am depressed ove this still, however. SHe would contact me every 5 or 6 months to see how I am, but would aways say she does not want to look back but just be friends. I dont want to just be friends with her. She did this again yesterday. I have not been able to stop thinking about her. What can I do to move past? I dont think she wants to get back together. I was in relationship with gril in another country,I am in US. We were together for 5 years.SHe had to travel back and forth from her country to see me. I never married her but should have. We had a rocky time together but still loved ech other. I have not seen in 3 years exactly.
2 years go we had a fight online and she ended it. I went thru all the anger,denial,etc.. I am depressed ove this still, however. SHe would contact me every 5 or 6 months to see how I am, but would aways say she does not want to look back but just be friends. I dont want to just be friends with her. She did this again yesterday. I have not been able to stop thinking about her. What can I do to move past? I dont think she wants to get back together.

]]> By: suga97 http://pintmaster.com/20060724/how-to-get-over-an-ex/#comment-115681 suga97 Sun, 27 Jul 2008 02:11:39 +0000 http://www.pintmaster.com/wordpress/index.php/20060724/how-to-get-over-an-ex/#comment-115681 wow I have been broken up with my ex for 2weeks now and reading this post helped me so much. we were 2gether for 3 and a half years of drama. He used me like a door mat and was a selfish pathelogical liar, the reason why I stuck around cause I didn't wanna be alone. my biggest mistake was loving someone more than I loved myself. you shouldn't have to beg someone who claims they love you to spend time with u, be faithful. if a relationship is not progressing after 3 years and is at the same place it was in the beginning then its time to move on. you can't change a person or there behavior they have to make a change themselves. there's is a light outside of a break up tunnel even though it will hurt your life is not over trust me. when you truely move on a month, a year from now you will look back and laugh and say what was I thinking. it only been 2weeks but the best way to truely move on is no contact, out of sight out of mind and keep busy no matter how bad it hurts to face people. I am 75 percent over him in 2weeks soon I will be 100 percent over him. no matter what I was a good, beautiful woman and he will miss me but its his loss for taking me for granted. wow I have been broken up with my ex for 2weeks now and reading this post helped me so much. we were 2gether for 3 and a half years of drama. He used me like a door mat and was a selfish pathelogical liar, the reason why I stuck around cause I didn’t wanna be alone. my biggest mistake was loving someone more than I loved myself. you shouldn’t have to beg someone who claims they love you to spend time with u, be faithful. if a relationship is not progressing after 3 years and is at the same place it was in the beginning then its time to move on. you can’t change a person or there behavior they have to make a change themselves. there’s is a light outside of a break up tunnel even though it will hurt your life is not over trust me. when you truely move on a month, a year from now you will look back and laugh and say what was I thinking. it only been 2weeks but the best way to truely move on is no contact, out of sight out of mind and keep busy no matter how bad it hurts to face people. I am 75 percent over him in 2weeks soon I will be 100 percent over him. no matter what I was a good, beautiful woman and he will miss me but its his loss for taking me for granted.

]]> By: Anonymous http://pintmaster.com/20060724/how-to-get-over-an-ex/#comment-100643 Anonymous Sun, 08 Jun 2008 09:54:11 +0000 http://www.pintmaster.com/wordpress/index.php/20060724/how-to-get-over-an-ex/#comment-100643 thanks for the advice thanks for the advice

]]> By: Ange http://pintmaster.com/20060724/how-to-get-over-an-ex/#comment-84345 Ange Sun, 17 Feb 2008 15:13:56 +0000 http://www.pintmaster.com/wordpress/index.php/20060724/how-to-get-over-an-ex/#comment-84345 It's been a year since it's all been over.. I was with him for about two months but I'd known him for 3 years. He wanted me a long time ago and I never paid attention untl 1 day he broke up with his girlfriend and decided to contact me, he thought I could grow to like him, and help him get over his ex. I eventually grew to love him, understand that he was a lot like me. But I came to know that there was no room in his heart for me. So I left. Never look back but once or twice I text him and that got me nowhere. It's been a year. I know he is not worth it. I know I was his rebound, he used me. Never really gave a dime abt me but still sometimes I cant heol but look for him.. I'm worried. I know all the rules in the book about letting go but "no..It's beyond me now".. it scares me... It’s been a year since it’s all been over.. I was with him for about two months but I’d known him for 3 years. He wanted me a long time ago and I never paid attention untl 1 day he broke up with his girlfriend and decided to contact me, he thought I could grow to like him, and help him get over his ex. I eventually grew to love him, understand that he was a lot like me. But I came to know that there was no room in his heart for me. So I left. Never look back but once or twice I text him and that got me nowhere. It’s been a year. I know he is not worth it. I know I was his rebound, he used me. Never really gave a dime abt me but still sometimes I cant heol but look for him.. I’m worried. I know all the rules in the book about letting go but “no..It’s beyond me now”.. it scares me…

]]> By: Alec Lowe http://pintmaster.com/20060724/how-to-get-over-an-ex/#comment-83476 Alec Lowe Thu, 07 Feb 2008 00:49:12 +0000 http://www.pintmaster.com/wordpress/index.php/20060724/how-to-get-over-an-ex/#comment-83476 Lia, I agree With Colin if he didn't even fight for the realationship then forget him. Lia, I agree With Colin if he didn’t even fight for the realationship then forget him.

]]> By: Alec Lowe http://pintmaster.com/20060724/how-to-get-over-an-ex/#comment-83475 Alec Lowe Thu, 07 Feb 2008 00:46:53 +0000 http://www.pintmaster.com/wordpress/index.php/20060724/how-to-get-over-an-ex/#comment-83475 I think all of these ideas were good.I had to get over an ex once,wasn't easy but i did.And now I have a new girlfriend.OH YEA!!!!!:) I think all of these ideas were good.I had to get over an ex once,wasn’t easy but i did.And now I have a new girlfriend.OH YEA!!!!!:)

]]> By: Colin http://pintmaster.com/20060724/how-to-get-over-an-ex/#comment-78766 Colin Sun, 09 Dec 2007 15:14:58 +0000 http://www.pintmaster.com/wordpress/index.php/20060724/how-to-get-over-an-ex/#comment-78766 Hi Heather, it sounds to me that you're feeling insecure because he doesnt want you anymore. Well, that's natural to feel that whether you loved him fully or not. We always want what we cant have. You are better off to move on. Trying to get him back will only make you both miserable in the long run if your heart wasnt there to begin with. Hi Heather, it sounds to me that you’re feeling insecure because he doesnt want you anymore. Well, that’s natural to feel that whether you loved him fully or not. We always want what we cant have. You are better off to move on. Trying to get him back will only make you both miserable in the long run if your heart wasnt there to begin with.

]]> By: Heather http://pintmaster.com/20060724/how-to-get-over-an-ex/#comment-78660 Heather Sat, 08 Dec 2007 00:04:06 +0000 http://www.pintmaster.com/wordpress/index.php/20060724/how-to-get-over-an-ex/#comment-78660 I have a question... I dated a guy for about a year and a half and the whole time I was unhappy because I wasn't completely"in love" with him. I did love him, think he was the worlds BEST boyfriend as well as attractive but I broke up with him because the passion wasn't there. When I saw he was dating another girl I immediately realized I wanted him back and was completely in love with him but it was too late he said he was over me. When we were together I didn't think there was ANYTHING I could do to make him not want me anymore. He's all I can think about... Is this just jealousy or did I just need to realize he wouldn't be there no matter how horribly I treated him? I have a question… I dated a guy for about a year and a half and the whole time I was unhappy because I wasn’t completely”in love” with him. I did love him, think he was the worlds BEST boyfriend as well as attractive but I broke up with him because the passion wasn’t there. When I saw he was dating another girl I immediately realized I wanted him back and was completely in love with him but it was too late he said he was over me. When we were together I didn’t think there was ANYTHING I could do to make him not want me anymore. He’s all I can think about… Is this just jealousy or did I just need to realize he wouldn’t be there no matter how horribly I treated him?

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